Why am I doing this?

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When I was diagnosed with prostate cancer at 42, it felt like stepping into a nightmare that “wasn’t supposed to happen yet.”

Most men don’t even consider a prostate exam until 50, and even then, it’s usually treated like a chore to avoid. But early detection is stupidly simple and could mean the difference between life and death.

I’m here to document every step of my journey — the emotions, the doctor’s appointments, the tests, and everything in between — to shine a light on how urgent this conversation really is.

This blog is part therapy, part mission. If my story can kick just one guy into getting checked earlier, it’s worth it. No one expects cancer at 42 — but maybe they should. I’m pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like, and I’m inviting you to walk this road with me, whether for yourself, your brother, your dad, or your best friend.